I was wondering... if people could actually remember you in the after-life. If there is one at all, I mean. Then, I thought about the people who found someone else after their spouse died young and then remarried. Wouldn't that kind of suck for the spouse who left before? The other half would eventually die too and maybe that person might meet up with the one who passed away first and be like "Sorry, I love ____ now. We've gone through so much together". If that happened to me, I'd be like "Wow, this sucks. I waited for nothing". Ohhh... unless the deceased can see the living. Then they would've known earlier. I guess they can, right? That's why people see ghosts; because they're still attached to this world. Or something like that.